In Atlanta tonight and having trouble dropping off to sleep.

I paid some more of my dad's bills today; leftover medical bills, the last power bill, etc.

With each one, I am getting closer to being done with the task of being executor. With each one, I am getting closer to having my dad's time here on earth end.

While this blog is not about dad, his situation often makes me reflect on my own. How long would it have taken for my Mark to disappear? How hard would Ashley have had to work to clean up the trail I left behind?

...and how much more work would someone have had to do if I were not here to be dad's executor?

...and WHY have we not updated our wills now that our family is complete?

Lesson? Pay attention to the paperwork. Have it in order.

Bigger lesson, leave your mark now, love your family now, decide who you are and be that person forever.