Usually, I talk about how I am doing today & then I write the next chapter in my story of pain, recovery and recuperation. Today, with your kind permission, I am going to talk about some other folks. Actually, I am going to DO it anyway, I just hope you will read it.

In the last 6 weeks, people have referred to me as lucky, very lucky, incredibly lucky, and "WOW, you are a lucky man!" One of the ambulance drivers from my second trip to the ER even called me a walking miracle.

I realize I am at least that lucky, but not because I am so smart or self aware.

I realize how lucky I am because of the situations of some other folks in my life. In particular, 3 families are in situations that show just how lucky I am, as a man, as a father, as a person.

Family one recently found out about a case of cancer. It seems that this will be treatable with the usual methods, but cancer is the one word no one wants to hear. This is a long term issue, and one that will always haunt this family. I am lucky enough that my situation was a single event and should not be a problem if I take care of myself. I control my destiny. I am lucky.

Family two is also dealing with a chronic issue. Again, this is a situation that is not in their control. What is really disappointing to hear was that the patient barely made it home for Christmas. They DID get to be home at the last minute. Unfortunately, they were stuck in bed and the holiday had to be celebrated there. I was able to shop for some presents, I was able to welcome the kids to Christmas & I was able to join them at church on Christmas Eve. I am very lucky.

The last family has been on an absolute rollercoaster. The medical issue was originally nothing big, then terrible, then a simple fix, then doctors realized there was another hidden issue that complicated everything. And Christmas? Forget it. This crew spent Christmas in the hospital; wondering what was going to happen. You already know I had a pretty normal Christmas. I am a walking miracle.

My Christmas was happy, normal. These other folks are dealing with situations worse than mine ultimately will be. Thank you for your support, but from today forward, please use some of the prayers meant for me to support these families and all of the families around the world who need the prayers more.


Lesson Learned:
It has been said by countless people, in an infinite number of ways, but it is so true; no matter what your situation is, you can find someone who is in a worse situation, someone who needs more support, someone YOU can help.

No matter what is going on, you have good things in you life. Focus on those things and work through the problems.